An excerpt from
Charging the Human Battery
by Mac Anderson
The
older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday morning. Perhaps it's the quiet
solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it's the
unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few
hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks
ago, I was shuffling toward the garage with a steaming cup of coffee in
one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began as a typical
Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that life seems to
hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it:
I turned
the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio in order
to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I came across
an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a golden voice. You
know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the broadcasting
business. He was telling whomever he was talking with something about "a
thousand marbles." I was intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had
to say.
"Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your
job. I'm sure they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away
from home and your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should
have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. It's too
bad you missed your daughter's dance recital," he continued; "Let me
tell you something that has helped me keep my own priorities." And
that's when he began to explain his theory of a "thousand marbles."
"You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average
person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some
live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.
Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3,900, which is
the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire
lifetime. Now, stick with me, Tom, I'm getting to the important part.
It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in
any detail," he went on, "and by that time I had lived through over
twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I lived to be
seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy. So I
went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended up
having to visit three toy stores to round up 1,000 marbles. I took them
home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right here in
the shack next to my gear.
Every Saturday since then, I have
taken one marble out and thrown it away. I found that by watching the
marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life.
There's nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight.
Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign off with you and take
my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last
marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next
Saturday then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing
we can all use is a little more time.
It was nice to meet you
Tom. I hope you spend more time with your family, and I hope to meet you
again here on the band. This is a 75 year old man, K9NZQ, clear and
going QRT, good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop on
the band when this fellow signed off. I guess he gave us all a lot to
think about. I had planned to work on the antenna that morning, and then
I was going to meet up with a few hams to work on the next club
newsletter.
Instead, I went upstairs and woke my wife up with a kiss. "C'mon honey, I'm taking you and the kids to breakfast."
"What brought this on?" she asked with a smile.
"Oh, nothing special, it's just been a long time since we spent a
Saturday together with the kids. And hey, can we stop at a toy store
while we're out? I need to buy some marbles."
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